As you learn to take care of yourself emotionally and physically, you now have to spend at least as much time taking care of your financial future. But it would be wise to try and keep these issues separate.
When talking about emotional or child issues with your spouse, it is generally better to pick a different time to go over the financial or legal matters. In other words, prepare yourself for business and aim to act in a business-like manner.
Easier said than done but this is a good aim to keep in mind. It is so very hard to discuss finances when arguing about contact or new relationships for example. This is not realistic. Please refer back to our Financial section for futher information.